Razvodi se Džoš Vid, homoseksualac u mormonskom hetero braku

[Paradoksologija]

Džoš Vid (Josh Weed), homoseksualac koji je kao revnosni mormon poslužio za primer da je moguće odreći se svoje seksualnosti i sledeći svoju veru ući u heteroseksualni brak, i njegova supruga Loli, objavili su da se - razvode.

Naveli su da sada smatraju i osećaju platonska ljubav nije dovoljna i da oboje zaslužuju romantičnu ljubav.

Takođe su uputili izvinjenje svim članovima LGBT zajednica koji su zbog njihovog primera trpeli osudu, odbacivanja, ili dobili lažnu nadu da se seksualnost može promeniti - iako oni sami nikada nikoga nisu osudili ukoliko i sam ne pokuša taj put.

 

 

[Paradoksologija]

Josh Weed, famous married gay Mormon announces divorce, apologizes to LGBTQ community

by Larry D. CurtisSaturday, January 27th 2018

SALT LAKE CITY (KUTV) — Josh and Lolly Weed, viewed as proof, and used as an example, that a gay man and a straight woman can make a successful Mormon marriage, have announced their divorce. In the same blog post where they announce their divorce, they offered an apology to the LGBTQ community.

"Today, we need to let you know that Lolly and I are divorcing," the blog said this week, after recounting the couple's accidental rise to the media spotlight when Josh Weed came out as a gay LDS man who was faithful to his church and married to a woman. They were in high demand to explain how they made the seemingly contradictory lifestyles work together.

The couple wrote, together and then individually in the same blog post on Thursday, that they came to understand over time that their deep platonic love was not a substitute for romantic love and that such a relationship is vital to everyone's happiness. 

Lolly Weed wrote:

And that is what human beings need to be healthy. All of us. Romantic attachment. It’s one of the main purposes of life!
They explain at length how they came to the realization. Josh Weed said three factors led him to believe this was the case.

Love for the LGBTQ population
Love for himself as a gay person
The death of his mother

The couple rise to notoriety came about because of a blog post — that can no longer be found on JoshWeed.com — that, according to Josh, led them to be "featured on shows and newspapers around the globe." That included a story on Nightline.

Josh works in his private practice as a licensed marriage and family therapist. Included with the announcement and explanation about the couple's divorce was an apology to the LGBTQ community. Among the specific things the Weeds apologies for are:

We’re sorry, so incredibly sorry, for the ways our post has been used to bully others.
And we’re sorry if our story made it easier for people in your life to reject you and your difficult path as being wrong.
We’re sorry to any gay Mormon who received criticism, backlash, or hatred as a result of our story.
We’re sorry to anybody who felt a measure of false peace because of our story.
We’re sorry to any LGBTQIA person who was given false hope by our story
Each of the specific apologies came with longer explanations.

Josh Weed also wrote that his stance on homosexuality, that once aligned with that of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, had changed. 

"I have spent my entire life conforming to every standard of the LDS faith because I believed it was what God wanted me to do," he explained.

"I believed this because every mentor, every exemplar, every religious teacher, every therapist, every leader I ever grew up listening to and trusting told me that that was the only way I could return to live with God. There was an emphasis on 'perfect obedience' and yet, over the course of my lifetime, the list of things said by these trusted leaders about my sexual orientation was profoundly inconsistent and confusing."

Josh Weed listed a number of those "inconsistent and confusing" things, which included: 

My sexual orientation wasn’t real
My sexual orientation was evil
My sexual orientation was an abomination
My sexual orientation was tantamount to bestiality and just shy of murder
My sexual orientation could change in this life if I had enough faith
My sexual orientation was a “trial” to bear
My sexual orientation maybe couldn’t change in this life after all
My sexual orientation could be managed with faith
My sexual orientation could be endured

Lolly Weed also wrote that many of her friends and community expressed to her, upon learning of the divorce, empathized with her and say she deserved the romantic connection, but few felt that empathy for her husband.

The thing that’s so interesting to me is how few people think of Josh in this way. How few people in his life have ever thought these things about him—things that are so obvious, so clear, so emphatic when talking to another straight person. I mean, isn’t the same true for LGBT people? Shouldn’t we feel the exact same intuitive injustice at the thought of them deserving to be “loved like that”?
When the tables are turned and we are talking about LGBTQ individuals, somehow people don’t see the parallels. Why am I, as a straight person, entitled to reciprocal, requited romantic love while an LGBTQ individual is not?
The blog post says the couple and their children will continue to be close and will continue to love each other.

"We can continue to be the family we have always been, and we can add to that family," they wrote.

Weed emailed KUTV this statement:

"In posting, we hoped to let those who followed our story five years ago know the reality of our situation. We also wanted to apologize to the LGBTQIA community and to anybody who was hurt by our story over the last five years.

Thanks so much!

Josh"

[Avocado]

Sad je duplo zgresio... em gej, em se razveo!

[Лазар Нешић]

Да је пригрлио истинито срБско православље сад би већ превазишао своју палу природу, овако ...

[Paradoksologija]

Управо сада, Брка Жарковачки рече

Да је пригрлио истинито српско православље сад би већ превазишао своју палу природу, овако ...

Mnogi istiniti srpski pravoslavci su ga ipak zdušno navodili kao primer.

[Golub]

ЕвЕ је тема! која ће достићи неслућене границе... 

 

Кога, бре, брига шта ради Џош Коров?

[Grizzly Adams]

Кад је нашо неку камењарку... Права супругичаста би га очас посла превела у праву веру!

[Лазар Нешић]

пре 2 минута, Paradoksologija рече

Mnogi istiniti srpski pravoslavci su ga ipak zdušno navodili kao primer.

Ма да, сад ће вероватно рећи ово што сам ја горе написао: па нема благодати у секти, него само у манастирима са Овчара и Каблара ...

[Ayla]

пре 1 минут, Grizzly Adams рече

Кад је нашо неку камењарку... Права супругичаста би га очас посла превела у праву веру!

Da... ali samo ona sa brcima, malo jače građe, što zna odalamit šakom o sto.
 

[Trifke]

пре 2 минута, Брка Жарковачки рече

Ма да, сад ће вероватно рећи ово што сам ја горе написао: па нема благодати у секти, него само у манастирима са Овчара и Каблара ...

 

[Trifke]

пре 5 минута, Брка Жарковачки рече

Ма да, сад ће вероватно рећи ово што сам ја горе написао: па нема благодати у секти, него само у манастирима са Овчара и Каблара ...

A moze i ova:

 

[Grizzly Adams]

пре 15 минута, Paradoksologija рече

Takođe su uputili izvinjenje svim članovima LGBT zajednica koji su zbog njihovog primera trpeli osudu, odbacivanja, ili dobili lažnu nadu da se seksualnost može promeniti

Још моли браћу да му опросте и приме га назад... Нема брадер, сам си тео жене, ето ти сад...

[Paradoksologija]

пре 3 минута, Grizzly Adams рече

Још моли браћу да му опросте и приме га назад... Нема брадер, сам си тео жене, ето ти сад...

1. Kapiraš da se to odnosi i na lezbejke, ne?

2. Pa nije 'teo žene, no mislio da mora, i ta fina žena ga pustila da eksperimentiše s njom... i oboma im to nije bilo to. Izgleda da je bitan faktor bio što mu je majka nedavno umrla...

[Paradoksologija]

пре 4 минута, Grizzly Adams рече

Још моли браћу да му опросте и приме га назад... Нема брадер, сам си тео жене, ето ти сад...

Ti izgleda postaješ muški pandan ovim najradikalnijim feministkinjama, političkim lezbejskim separatistkinjama

[Natasa.]

пре 11 минута, Grizzly Adams рече

Кад је нашо неку камењарку... Права супругичаста би га очас посла превела у праву веру!

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