ProAna 'proud to be anorexic'

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Novi, iskrivljeni, pogledi na motiv gladi

Svi ste već vjerovatno čuli za poremećaje ishrane, i otprilike znamo kako izgledaju. Bulimija, anoreksija, prejedanje…Ono što nam je ipak manje poznato sigurno su internet sajtovi koji “vrbuju” mlade ljude i podržavaju ih u ovom, slobodno možemo reći, stilu života.

Najčešći zajednički naziv za sajtove, obično ilegalnog statusa, koji promovišu poremećaje u ishrani, poput bulimije i anoreksije je ProAna. Ovaj naziv se odnosi na stav prema anorexia nervosa, ne kao poremećaju u ishrani već kao stilu života koji se odobrava, a ne prevenira ili kasnije liječi. Naziv se sada popularizovao u krugovima koji ga koriste i generalizovao se i na slične probleme, poremećaje u ishrani, kao što je na primer bulimia nervosa. Dio naziva ovoga sajta, Ana, se odnosi na populaciju djevojaka koje se identifikuju sa vršnjakinjom koja živi život koji bi one htjele. 

Razlike u gledištima u okviru ove grupe sajtova su velike. Jedna strana podržava oporavak, dok druga o njemu ne govori. Kako na ove poremećaje ne gledaju kao bolest većina sajtova ove vrste se ne bavi problemima liječenja i oporavka, već se podrazumijeva da će pojedinac ili pojedinka u slučaju biranja liječenja potražiti pomoć na nekom drugom mjestu ili otići na neki drugi sajt. Tako na primjer sajtovi ProAna i ProMia se ne razlikuju mnogo u stavu prema liječenju ovih poremećaja. ProMia sadrži neke naznake oko podržavanja liječenja, ali i ako osoba odustane od liječenja ona je i više nego dobrodošla da se vrati, dok kod ProAne to nije slučaj.

Pitanje (i)legalnosti ovih sajtova uvijek je aktuelna tema. Iako možda ne evidentno, problem je u tome što se postojanje ovih sajtova upravo kosi sa očajničkim pokušajima liječenja i prevencije bolesti poremećaja u ishrani kako u svijetu tako i kod nas. Mali broj ljudi je obaviješten o postojanju ovih sajtova. Ovdje naravno ne ubrajamo ljude koji se bore protiv ovih bolesti i osoba koje koriste ove sajtove kako bi pronašle nove ideje za “poboljšanje” svog izgleda i smanjenje težine. To što je mali broj ljudi obaviješten o postojanju ovih sajtova i načinu njihovog rada, to ne znači da problem ne postoji. To ukazuje da ili ne postoji jasan plan rešavanja problema ili se jednostavno oči zatvaraju pred njim. Ali oči ne zatvara svakako modna industrija koja ovdje pronalazi svoj interes. Preko veličanja mršavog i izgladnjelog izgleda uz pomoć raznih vrsta medija, anoreksičnih manekenki i foto – modela koje su bile i ostaće uzori mladih devojaka promoviše i podržava na latentan način dalji opstanak ovih problema, ako ne i dalji razvitak.

Kako izgledaju ovi sajtovi?

Da bih na pravi način predstavila ove poremećaje i zloupotrebu sajtova, pretražila sam nekoliko Internet stranica na kojima se nalaze korisni saveti za djevojke koje žele da budu jako mršave. Moram priznati da sam naišla i na savjete za lečenje i neke preporuke i linkove za sajtove koji se bave liječenjem ovih poremećaja, ali svakako sam došla do zaključka da sve ovo izgleda kao grupa koja želi da privuče što veći broj članova u svoje okrilje. 

U zavisnosti od sajta koji se koristi postoje razne varijacije na istu temu – temu promovisanja poremećaja u ishrani. Neki od najpopularnijih sajtova su: The Red Bracelet Project, Pro Ana online, The Ana refuge, Pro Ana nation i drugi. Pri ulasku na neke od ovih sajtova bićete upozoreni da ako želite da pristupite sajtu morate biti stariji od 18 godina. Pominju se i moguće komplikacije na mentalnom planu za koje konstruktori sajta ne preuzimaju odgovornost. Takođe dobićete i listu pravila i obaveštenja o tome šta se smije i ne smije raditi na ovim sajtovima i forumima. Tako na primer:

- “Morate imati poremećaj u ishrani da biste se pridružili ili registrovali. Sajt nije pro-anoreksičan, tako da prestanite da zapitkujete. Mi smo Pro Ana. To znači da mi znamo da su poremećaji u ishrani bolesti. Naš izbor je samo da se ne liječimo.”

- “NIKAD NIJE U REDU da uhodite, zlostavljate, maltretirate ili dovodite u neprijatnu situaciju nekoga ko je online. Ako vas neko zamoli da ga ostavite na miru to nije šala i on to ozbiljno misli. Ako vam neko pokušava naškoditi dok ste na sajtu molimo vas da pozovete policiju odmah. Postoje zakoni protiv uhođenja. Ovdje se NIKAD ne osjećajte uplašeno.”

- NE MOŽETE pitati kako da dobijete poremećaj u ishrani, ili kako da povraćate ili izgladnjujete sebe. Ovaj sajt i sve u vezi sa njim je za one KOJI IMAJU POREMEĆAJ U ISHRANI. Ovaj sajt NIJE za ljude koji ŽELE DA GA DOBIJU ili samo dijete ili gubljenja težine radi.”

Pored već pobrojanih djelova sajta, dobrodošlice, upozorenja i pravila, ovi sajtovi kao i drugi legalni sajovi sa strane sadrže kostur uz pomoć kog se korisnik ili samo posetilac ovog sajta može lakše snaći i pronaći stvari koje ga interesuju. Na početku se svakako nalaze definicije poremećaja u ishrani, prevashodno ili jedino anoreksije i bulimije. Pored ovoga nalaze se i citati iz socijalne i medijske sredine uzeti iz konteksta običnih razgovora ili intervijua. Kod citata medijskih ličnosti, koje su žene, vodi se rat u zauzimanju ekstremno drugačijih stavova po pitanju debljine ili mršavosti, kako vam volja i toga šta je to pravi ili normalan izgled. 

Planovi dijeta i vježbanja, kao i recepti nisko - kaloričnih obroka takođe mogu biti pronađeni na sajtovima. Dijete nose imena nekih od poznatih ličnosti koje se uzimaju za idole ili ih tvorci smatraju odgovarajućih oblina i kilaže. 

Administratori i tvorci ovih sajtova navode i neke loše savjete, zablude čiji ishod može biti smrtonosan ili biti veoma štetan po zdravlje. Neki od tih zabluda su: gutanje komada papira ili vate natopljenih vodom kako bi se izazvao osećaj sitosti u želucu. Pored svih loših strana ovo je dobro jer je naglašen loš uticaj nekih aktivnosti ljudi. Jer i pored izgladnjivanja oni vode donekle računa o ljudima i mogućim smrtonosnim ishodima ljudi koji ne znaju šta je dobro ili ne ili se prosto izgube u želji da postanu mršavi.

Ono što se meni učinilo posebno zanimljivim jesu pjesme, filmovi, knjige i melodije koje podstiču ovakav način mišljenja, života. Neki od filmova su poznati široj javnosti i prikazani su kao primjer kako se ne treba (ne) hraniti i živjeti. Stihovi prikazanih pjesama se uglavnom odnose na neke neraskidive tajne veze sa Anom, njihovom zaštitnicom i najboljom prijateljicom. Oni Anu u isto vrijeme i mrze i vole, što pokazuje da oni negdje shvataju duboko u sebi da problem postoji, ali ne mogu ga priznati i više vole ljubav prema imaginarnoj osobi koja ih inspiriše na dato ponašanje nego priznavanje poraza i laži koja im je pružena vjerom u sebe i Anu.

U toku istraživanja o ovim sajtovima i poremećajima u ishrani i motive gladi neki sajtovi su zatvoreni i blokirani. Ovo ukazuje na to da se problem rješava, doduše sporo, ali se pomjera sa mrtve tačke. Važno je obavijestiti i osvijestiti ljude o postojanju ovakvih sajtova kako bi se zajedničkim snagama nastojalo spriječiti dalje širenje ove “kuge modernog doba” koja sve više i više uzima maha. 

Jedan od mogućih pravaca rješenja ovog problema jeste napraviti sajtove koji podstiču liječenje i promovisanje zdravog izgleda i prehrane, a imaju isti mehanizam funkcionisanja kao Pro Ana i Pro Mia ilegalni sajtovi. Na taj način zadati direktan udarac. Jer ako to ne uradimo čak i neke ozbiljnije stvari, poput egzistencije ljudske vrste, dovode se u pitanje.

Извор

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Pro-ana je način života koji podržava anoreksiju, poremećaj u ishrani, tvrdeći da je to stvar slobodnog izbora, a glavna karakteristika je odbijanje hrane. Pro-ana je skraćenica od “ponosna sam što sam anoreksična”. Pro-ana sledbenice često personalizuju anoreksiju, pa joj tepaju Ana, i govore da je ona njihova jedina prava prijateljica. Za bulimiju, daje se naziv Mija, a za pokret analogno pro-mija.

Pro-ana je pokret nastao na internetu. Sastoji se od stranica, čet soba i foruma, na kojima se podržava anoreksija, bulimija i drugi poremećaji u ishrani. Tu osobe obolele od poremećaja ishrane “pomažu” jedne drugima da izbegnu lečenje, oporavak i rehabilitaciju.

Poklonice pro-ana pokreta tvrde da proaktivna anoreksija nije poremećaj, već stvar izbora. One kažu da pro-anu ne treba mešati sa anoreksijom nervozom, jer pro-ana nije bolest ili poremećaj od kog osoba “boluje”. Pro-ana je način života, koji počinje slobodnom voljom. Pro-ana je samokontrola, za razliku od obolelih od anoreksije nervoze koji se ne mogu kontrolisati.

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Opis bloga

Pisat cu o svacemu, najvise o mojoj dijeti,jer je zbog toga ovaj blog i stvoren... Molim sve one koji mi misle pametovat o posljedicama ane i mie da ne ostavljaju komentare jer će ionako biti obrisani.Uostalom,šta vas briga ako se upropaštavam,to je moj život i vas se ne tiče!Ja nikoga ne nagovaram,niti mi je to namjera,da postane ana ili mia,ja samo želim savjete od drugih djevojaka koje vec jesu ana i mia..

NEŠTO O MENI:

God:15
Težina: 60kg
Željena težina:50kg..49kg-maximum
Visina:168cm.
Stil odijevanja:šminkerica...(u crnom)

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Nemogu vjerovati da sam uspjela........
Danas nisam jela nista cijeli dan.....Mislila sam da cu morat,jer sam ranije zavrsila skolu(u 13h),pa bi stari bio doma kad bi dosla...
Vec sam se pomirila s tim da cu morati jest jer inace dolazim doma iz skole oko 16-17h(a tad bas stari ide radit,pa imam srecu),a danas sam dosla ranije...
Dodem ja doma...i stari pita jesam puno gladna,jer je tek poceo pripremat rucak.....
Kazem je njemu da bas i nisam,a serem li ga serem-UMIRALA SAM OD GLADI!!
Čovječe uopce nisam mogla pratiti nastavu..umjesto profe,stalno sam slusa krulenje svoga želudca...
Neka,baš mi je drago!!!Obožavam kad mi želudac kruli(iako nije bas ugodno)jer onda znam da mrsavim...
Taman sam legla da spavam,bila sam uzasno umorna,iscrpljena,gladna....
kad eto njega,nosi mi rucak...
NEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!
Još mi ga onak gura u ruke....ja mu kazem da stavi na stol da cu jest kad zavrsim zadacu...
Onda se otisao spremat za posao...pa sam iskoristila priliku i bacila svu hranu u smece,a tanjur odnjela u kuhinju....
Tak sam sad happy,pucam od srece....mozda vam je cudno sto sam tako sretna,ali ako ste citali prosle postove vidjeli biste zasto sam sretna....
Ovih zadnjih par dana sam stalno bila mia...nemam ja nis protiv nje..dapace nekad mi je super,jer pomogne kad iznevjerim anu...
A danas mi nije trebala mia...ana je bila uz mene..Ana mi je puno draža...
Kad sam s anom nije mi toliko lose kao sa mijom....
Mia me izmori..glava me poslije boli..drhtim...a i dosta vremen mi oduzme,naporno je sve..planiranje i izvedba...
Draža mi je ana...Iako mi nekad zna biti slabo,ali bolje to nego da sam s mijom...
Ljudi moji danas sam ove stvari konzumirala:
1 bijelu kavu
3 kakaa
3 cedevite
3l vode
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To je to,javit cu se da vam javim kako napredujem...
P.S.Držite se curke,znam da cete uspjeti!!
 

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mother anorexia will make us clean.don't let calories control you. THE RED BRACELET COMMUNITY/PROANA/PROMIA all tweets tagged #REDBRACELETPRO will be RT'D

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Skinny is more Important then Heath #Proana #41DaysOfStarvation

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Ana Religion & Lifestyle

Thin Commandments

1) If you aren’t thin, you aren’t attractive
2) Being thin is more important than being healthy
3) You must but clotes, cut your hair, take laxatives, anything to make yourself look thinner
4) Thou shall not eat without feeling guilty
5) Thou shall not eat fattening food withoud punishing afterwards
6) Thou shall count calories and restrict intake accordingly
7) What the scale says is the most important thing
8) Losing weight is good, gaining weight is bad
9) You can never be to thin
10) Being thin and not eating are signs of true will power and succes.

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Why I starve myself

• Because I can
• Because I’m the hunger artist
• Because I want to
• Because if I can accomplish this, I can do anything!
• Because off all the people in my life who die of jealousy when they see the way I look
• Because it makes me feel brand new every day!
• Because I just won’t quit
• Because I have wanted to be this way forever
• Because I don’t have any time to waste on food
• Because I can do anything I put my mind to
• Because I have the willpower
• Because it’s my life
• Because it’s my choice
• Because of my next birthday
• Because it’s me. And though I don’t advise it to anyone else; I’m too thin, and I don’t eat enough, and that’s me, and I love it!
• Because I want to be skinny for summer

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Ana’s Creed

I believe in control, the only force mighty enough to bring onrder in the chaos that is my world.

I believe that I am the most vile, worthless an useless person ever have to existed on this planet, and that I am totally onworthy of anyone’s time and attention.

I believe in oughts, musts and shoulds, as unbreakable laws to determine my daily behaviour.

I believe in perfection and strive to attain it.

I believe in salvation trough starvation.

I believe in calorie counters as the inspired word of god, and memorise then accordingly.

I believe in bathroom scales as an indicator of my daily succeses and failures.

I believe in hell, cause sometimes I think I live in it.

I believe in a wholly black an withe world, the losing of weight, recrimination for sins, the alonegation of the body and a life ever fasting.

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Ana’s Laws

Thin is beauty; therefore I must be thin, and remain thin, If I wish to be loved. Food is my ultimate enemy. I may look, and I may smell, but I may not touch!

I must think about food every second of every minute of every hour of every day… and ways to avoid eating it.

I must weigh myself, first thing, every morning, and keep that number in mind throughout the remainder of that day. Should that number be greater than it was the day before, I must fast that entire day.

I shall not be tempted by the enemy (food), and I shall not give into temptation should it arise. Should I be in such a weakened state and I should cave, I will feel guilty and punish myself accordingly, for I have failed her.

I will be thin, at all costs. It is the most important thing; nothing else matters.

I will devote myself to Ana. She will be with me where ever I go, keeping me in line. No one else matters; she is the only one who cares about me and who understands me. I will honor Her and make Her proud

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Ana’s Psalm

Strict is my diet
I must nog want
It maketh me lie down at night hungry
It leadeth me past the confectioners
It trieth my will power
It leadeth me in the paths of alternation for my figure sake
Yeah, though I walk trough the aisles of the pastry department, I will buy no sweet rolls for they are fattening
The cakes and the pies, they tempt me
Before me is a table set with green beens and lettuce
I filleth my stomach with liquids
My day’s quota runneth over
Surely calorie and weight charts will follow me, all days of my life
And I will dwell in the fear of the scales forever

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Letters to and from Ana

Letter from Ana
Allow me to introduce myself. My name, or as I am called by so called “doctors”, is Anorexia. Anorexia Nervosa is my full name, but you may call me Ana. Hopefully we can become great partners. In the coming time, I will invest a lot of time in you, and I expect the same from you.
In the past you have heard all of your teachers and parents talk about you. You are “so mature”, “intelligent”, “14 going on 45”, and you possess “so much potential”. Where has that gotten you, may I ask? Absolutely no where! You are not perfect, you do not try hard enough, further more you waste your time on thinking and talking with friends and drawing! Such acts of indulgence shall not be allowed in the future.
Your friends do not understand you. They are not truthful. In the past, when the insecurity has quietly gnawed away at your mind, and you asked them, “Do I look….fat?” and they answered “Oh no, of course not” you knew they were lying! Only I tell the truth. Your parents, let’s not even go there! You know that they love you, and care for you, but part of that is just that they are your parents and are obligated to do so. I shall tell you a secret now: deep down inside themselves, they are disappointed with you. Their daughter, the one with so much potential, has turned into a fat, lazy, and undeserving girl.
But I am about to change all that.
I expect a lot from you. You are not allowed to eat much. It will start slowly:
decreasing of fat intake, reading the nutrition labels, cutting out junk food, fried food, etc. For a while, the exercise will be simple: some running, perhaps some crunches and some situps. Nothing too serious. Perhaps drop a few pounds, take a little off of that fat tub of a stomach. But it won’t be long before I tell you that it isn’t good enough.
I will expect you to drop your calorie intake and up your exercise. I will push you to the limit. You must take it because you cannot defy me! I am beginning to imbed myself into you. Pretty soon, I am with you always. I am there when you wake up in the morning and run to the scale. The numbers become both friend and enemy, and the frenzied thoughts pray for them to be lower than yesterday, last night, etc. You look into the mirror with dismay. You prod and poke at the fat that is there, and smile when you come across bone. I am there when you figure out the plan for the day: 400 calories, 2 hours exercise. I am the one figuring this out, because by now my thoughts and your thoughts are blurred together as one.
I follow you throughout the day. In school, when your mind wanders I give you something to think about. Recount the calories for the day. It’s too much. I fill your mind with thoughts of food, weight, calories, and things that are safe to think about. Because now, I am already inside of you. I am in your head, your heart, and your soul. The hunger pains you pretend not to feel is me, inside of you.
Pretty soon I am telling you not only what to do with food, but what to do ALL of the time. Smile and nod. Present yourself well. Suck in that fat stomach, dammit! God, you are such a fat cow!!!! When mealtimes come around I tell you what to do. I make a plate of lettuce seem like a feast fit for a king. Push the food around. Make it look like you’ve eaten something. No piece of anything…if you eat, all the control will be broken…do you WANT that?? To revert back to the fat COW you once were?? I force you to stare at magazine models. Those perfect skinned, white teethed, waifish models of perfection staring out at you from those glossy pages. I make you realize that you could never be them. You will always be fat and never will you be as beautiful as they are. When you look in the mirror, I will distort the image. I will show you obesity and hideousness. I will show you a sumo wrestler where in reality there is a starving child. But you must not know this, because if you knew the truth, you might start to eat again and our relationship would come crashing down.
Sometimes you will rebel. Hopefully not often though. You will recognize the small rebellious fiber left in your body and will venture down to the dark kitchen. The cupboard door will slowly open, creaking softly. Your eyes will move over the food that I have kept at a safe distance from you. You will find your hands reaching out, lethargically, like a nightmare, through the darkness to the box of crackers. You shove them in, mechanically, not really tasting but simply relishing in the fact that you are going against me. You reach for another box, then another, then another. Your stomach will become bloated and grotesque, but you will not stop yet. And all the time I am screaming at you to stop, you fat cow, you really have no self control, you are going to get fat.
When it is over you will cling to me again, ask me for advice because you really do not want to get fat. You broke a cardinal rule and ate, and now you want me back. I’ll force you into the bathroom, onto your knees, staring into the void of the toilet bowl. Your fingers will be inserted into your throat, and, not without a great deal of pain, your food binge will come up. Over and over this is to be repeated, until you spit up blood and water and you know it is all gone. When you stand up, you will feel dizzy. Don’t pass out. Stand up right now. You fat cow you deserve to be in pain!
Maybe the choice of getting rid of the guilt is different. Maybe I chose to make you take laxatives, where you sit on the toilet until the wee hours of the morning, feeling your insides cringe. Or perhaps I just make you hurt yourself, bang your head into the wall until you receive a throbbing headache. Cutting is also effective. I want you to see your blood, to see it fall down your arm, and in that split second you will realize you deserve whatever pain I give you. You are depressed, obsessed, in pain, hurting, reaching out but no one will listen? Who cares?!?!! You are deserving; you brought this upon yourself.
Oh, is this harsh? Do you not want this to happen to you? Am I unfair? I do do things that will help you. I make it possible for you to stop thinking of emotions that cause you stress. Thoughts of anger, sadness, desperation, and lonliness can cease because I take them away and fill your head with the methodic calorie counting. I take away your struggle to fit in with kids your age, the struggle of trying to please everyone as well. Because now, I am your only friend, and I am the only one you need to please.
I have a weak spot. But we must not tell anyone. If you decide to fight back, to reach out to someone and tell them about how I make you live, all hell will break lose. No one must find out, no one can crack this shell that I have covered you with. I have createdyou, this thin, perfect, achieving child. You are mine and mine alone. Without me, you are nothing. So do not fight back. When others comment, ignore them. Take it into stride, forget about them, forget about everyone that tries to take me away. I am your greatest asset, and I intend to keep it that way. Sincerely, Ana

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Letter to Ana
Dear Ana,

I offer you my soul, my heart and my bodily functions. I give you all my earthly possessions.

I seek your wisdom, your faith and your feather weight. I pledge to obtain the ability to float, to lower my weight to the single digits, I pledge to stare into space, to fear food, and to see obese images in the mirror. I will worship you and pledge to be a faithful servant until death does us part.

If I cheat on you and procreate with Ronald McDonald, Dave Thomas, the colonel or that cute little dog. I will kneel over my toilet and thrust my fingers deep in my throat and pray for your forgiveness.

Please Ana, don’t give up on me. I’m so weak, I know, but only you with your strength inside me will I become a woman worthy of love and respect. I’m begging for you not to give up, I’m pleading with my shallow breathes and my pale skin. I bleed for you, suffer leg pains, headaches and fainting spells. My love for you makes me dizzy and confused I don’t know whether I’m coming or going. Men run when they see the love I have for you and never return. But they aren’t important to me all thats important is that you love me.

If you stay with me, I will worship you daily, I will run miles a day, come rain, snow, bitter cold or searing heat I will run from the pain and in fright. I will do 1,000 sit ups a day and lie to my family about what I eat and how I feel. I will stop weeping when I feel your warm arms embrace my shivering body. I will numb the hunger pains with razor blades and your strength.

Today, I renew our friendship and resolve to be faithful to you year long, life long. I begin each year with a 3 day fast in honor of you. If you give me the strength to fade away I will love you and worship you forever.

When I’m finally faded to nothing, when you’ve given me the gift of ending this torturous life. I will float on to the next world and be thin and beautiful payment for my undying love for you in this world.

Love Always, Worthless One

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Bulimija i anoreksija kao religija mladih

Quod me nutrit, me destruit (iliti – ostaću gladna)

Pokreti pro-ana i pro-mia već neko vreme privlače devojčice i dečake koje su (ponekad) ispod donje granice da budu tinejdžerke, a samim tim i pažnju lekara, roditelja, ali i sociologa koji ih već smatraju društvenim podgrupama. Pro-ana pokret je po nekima dobio ime po pro-anoreksija, a pro-mia po pro-bulimija koceptu.

Za bulimiju je potvrđeno, ali se pro-Ane drže zajedno u svojoj nesreći i nameri da objasne i ubede da je ‘ana’ skraćeno od Anamadim koje je neko sasvim nevezano božanstvo (verovali ili ne – čuvar prakse ili težnje ka anoreksiji). Ali avaj, to više ni nije toliko bitno koliko su strašne pro-ana zapovesti.

Naime, pro-ana pokret je od poklonika dobio toliku pažnju i prešao u opsesiju, pa i u religiju. Postoje zapovesti, postoje molitve i narukvice koje nose (kako bi se prepoznale i oformile grupe podrške u svojoj nameri da budu lake kao pero, nešto nalik brojanicama), pa tako ana devojčice nose crvene narukvice na levoj ruci a mia plave na desnoj, obe vrste sa perlama, nebitne veličine, ali bitno da su na pravoj ruci. 

Dakle, zastrašujućih 10 mršavih zapovesti (The Thin Commandments):

1. Nisi privlačna ako nisi mršava.

2. Biti mršav je mnogo važnije nego biti zdrav.

3. Nema obroka bez osećaja krivice.

4. Treba kupovati odeću, konzumirati laksative i nositi frizure koje čine da izgledaš mršavo.

5. Ne jesti hranu koja goji a ne biti za to kažnjena.

6. Obavezno brojati kalorije i strogo ih se pridržavati.

7. Ono što vaga kaže je najbitnije.

8. Gubiti na kilaži je dobro, dobijati je loše.

9. Nikada ne možeš biti dovoljno mršava.

10. Biti mršav i ne jesti su znaci jake volje i uspeha.

Svaki podatak koji pronađete na njihovim sajtovima i forumima za podršku se kosi sa zdravim razumom utoliko što prkose i ne prihvataju anoreksiju i bulimiju kao bolest pa im je jedno od mnogih maksima kojima se vode i – anoreksija je način života a ne poremećaj.

Kad ih sretnete pokidajte im narukvicu i odvedite ih u pekaru.

Dajana Debić

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Koliki je ovo tuzna tema i tuzna situacija. Nisam znala da su se vec pojavili ovakvi proana sajtovi kod nas, a pomoc retko stize.

Znam da se u Dr Dragisa Misovicu bave dobri strucnjaci za adolescente ovom temom. Nekad i ta saradnja psi, endokrine i nutricionista moze da radi, samo da se lekari dogovore međusobom.

Sta raditi i koliko roditelji tj majke mogu da vaspitaju svoju decu, da im ne recima vec delom pokazu razliku izmedju potreba tela i vrednosti njih kao zena tj devojaka. Cesto odlazimo u krajnost ili potpuno nipodastavamo telo kao gresno, prljavo i nebitno, ili ga dizemo na pijedestal. Ono sto ja vidim kao pozitivnu praksu kod nas i sto nam moze pomoci i kod poremecaja ishrane je zajednicka trpeza, taj duvni obicaj da ma koliko radili i imali obaveza makar jednom dnevno obedujemo zajedno, mislim da je to bas vazna stavka.

A telesnost i telo su nepravedno dugo u nasoj kulturi smatrani tabuima, samo je nekad to drugacijim sistemom drzano pod kontrolom, a sad vise nema rigoroznog sistema koji ce imati tu funkciju i ljudi imaju problem da to redefinisu u svojoj slobodi.

Preteska tema, ja bih samo poucena iskustvom ljudi oko sebe i svojim, ako prinetite bilo kakve probleme sa ishranom kod dece potrazite pomoc, strucnu pomoc za vas pre svega.